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Pornography

Kevin-McKenna

Kevin McKenna
Journalist & With Kids Trustee
 

Among the first manifestations of a new and free society for East German citizens, following the fall of the Berlin Wall, were the proliferation of McDonald’s and widespread access to hard-core pornography.

Welcome to western capitalism.

Similarly, many parents in 21st century Britain are now trying to cope with the unwanted consequences of another revolution – the digital one.

Chief among these is the unfettered access that our children now have to hard-core porn via their iphones and ipads. Our children are being enslaved by internet porn predators while our governments stand idly by and watch it happen.

This is a far more toxic and disturbing threat to our society than the activities of internet trolls or dodgy political and religious communications.

Children in the early 21st century are the first in history to have their innocence threatened in this way. The consequences are disturbing. A distorted view of human sexuality and the objectifying of girls for instant gratification will breed a lack of respect for women in later life.

Such is the ease with which our children can access on-line porn that we are breeding a generation of boys who will grow up failing to understand that girls and women are deserving of respect and equality of status. Pornography doesn’t merely degrade women it also dehumanises them.

At worst it leads a myriad of violent acts against women.

It is time for parents to ask their local political representatives where they stand on this issue and, more importantly, what they intend to do about it.

Lets talk about sex

Tricia Hughes
Founding Director of With Kids
 

Surprisingly I am not an expert on pornography nor for that matter the internet. And whilst I am abhorred by reports in the news of children of primary school age accessing hard porn images through their iphones, I don’t think tougher regulation will work. Pornography dehumanises men as well as women and has no place in children’s growing awareness of sex.

The issue for me is about how we talk to children about sex. Despite the prolific spread of sexual images across every type of media, sex remains a difficult subject for parents. For primary school age children sex has always been a subject which provokes giggling curiosity. Just as we talk about the dangers of drugs, traffic and stranger danger to our children, we need to talk openly about sex and its place in meaningful relationships.  After all knowledge is power and if they are informed then we can trust our children to make their own choices.

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